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Watch out world classics, here I come

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, May 15 2012

How important is it to be widely read?

I’ve decided there are far too many classics that have passed me by and now I’m on a mission.

I blame it all on the News of the World. When the paper closed, we reviewed our Sunday paper options (quite an important task in a house with two journalists).

After much deliberation, we opted for the Sunday Times, much to the dismay of our newspaper delivery man who said he feared for the suspension in his car with the mountain of supplements.

Apart from making me realise that there are women in this world who think nothing of spending £400 on a pair of shoes (there’s never any Primark in their fashion spreads), it did make me think about the things I had – and hadn’t – read.

The complete works of Shakespeare has been sat on my bookshelf since I was a teenager, with scribbled notes in the margin from A-level Macbeth and The Tempest, but the others barely touched.

My goal is to work up to those, but to start with, I thought I’d have a go at Lord of the Flies (another school leftover, this time from my hubby’s collection).

Now don’t get me wrong, it’s beautifully written. I can appreciate William Golding’s attention to detail.

“Not a lot happens, though, does it?” I said to hubby. “I’m half way through and so far, all the boys have done is kill a pig, let the fire go out, and talk with a shell.”

He tells me that’s not the point. It’s about how people react when thrown into a desperate situation, and how society develops. The killing of the pig, he says, will become significant later.

I’m reserving judgement but if I’m honest I’m missing a bit of gritty Martina Cole, or the pure escapism of the Shopaholic series. Even if I learn to love the classics, I know I’ll always much rather be tucking into a biography.

What’s wrong with accepting that you can take it or leave it when it comes to some books? I’m ploughing on but making it through to Romeo and Juliet is looking a tough task.

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Technology is no substitute for old basics

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Wednesday, May 9 2012

We've had some journalism students in the office over the past few weeks for a spot of experience.

They are an absolute whizz on putting together video and audio and think nothing of sourcing stories from websites, Facebook and Twitter.

Nothing wrong with that, but sometimes the good, old-fashioned method of wearing some shoe leather out on the streets is the only way to get things done.

And that inevitably ends up with the likes of me, and one or two others, harking back to the days when we were trainees.

One of our students couldn’t quite get their head around how we used to get a paper out without modern technology. And, to be honest, by the end of the history lesson, neither could we.

When I first started as a cub reporter, computers weren’t part of a newsroom. Reporters wrote on typewriters, everything double-spaced and in triplicate – top copy for the editor, second copy for the subs and a copy for you.

When computers arrived, the screens were clunky. All you could do was type green letters on a black screen and how it ever appeared in print, with pictures alongside, I never really understood.

By the time I joined the KM Group, computers were part of everyday life, but technology was still a shadow of what it was today.

We worked on the daily paper, Kent Today, and would dash out first thing to a job, phone our copy back from a phone box (when was the last time you called the operator and reversed the charges?) and any borrowed photos had to be driven to our head office in Larkfield and put through the company’s only scanner.

And we were ahead of the rest. Just how did we do it? With grit and determination and the fear of missing a deadline.

On Friday, I stood watching HMS Ocean sailing up the River Thames. We had three reporters on scene – one taking pictures, two shooting video on smartphones, and, within a very short space of time, it was published on our website.

So what’s changed? Just the deadline. The grit and determination is always there. It’s just the deadline that’s moved.

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I don't mind rain, but this is beyond a joke

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, May 1 2012

 

The so-called summer league I play netball in started several weeks ago and, so far, there’s been nothing summer-like about it at all.

For weeks one and two, we were still wearing thermals under our kits because it was so cold. It was colder than during most matches of the winter season.

The week before last, I had the joy of being sub. Never let anyone tell you it’s better to be a sub in the first team than play in the second team. Trust me, after more than an hour standing on the sidelines, trying to fit four of us underneath an umbrella and keeping score with a soggy notepad and a pencil that didn’t want to know, I’d have much rather have been playing in the lower leagues.

It probably didn’t help that one of us forget to start the stopwatch either, so one quarter MAY have been slightly longer than all the others, prolonging our misery.

Last week, I turned up early to warm up (it takes far longer these days) and found myself in the starting seven.

All looked good until two minutes into the second quarter when God decided that the reasonably balmy evening deserved to see four seasons in one minute. First it rained, then it was just buckets of water, then the hail arrived along with huge gusts of wind.

People had already been slipping a little on the wet surface, but when we all had to stop running because we couldn’t see any more, the umpires sensibly abandoned the game.

With no changing rooms available, the drive home – dripping and cold – was far from fun.

Now I don’t mind a bit of rain, positively love it some days, especially when the sky’s all mean and moody, but it’s getting beyond a joke now (particularly as I can’t use my hosepipe to clean all the mud off my car because we’re supposedly in the middle of a drought).

But I wish someone would let the man upstairs know that we’ve had enough for a while, and just a spot of sunshine this Bank Holiday weekend wouldn’t go amiss for once.

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We have much to be proud of in this country

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, April 24 2012
It was St George’s Day yesterday. Did you know that? Sadly, very few people do, which for a nation so proud of it’s history, is rather shocking.

Things are better than when I was a kid. I’m sure somewhere in a history lesson at school we’d have covered the legend of St George and learned all about our patron saint.

And I do remember once lining up outside Rochester Cathedral in my Brownie outfit – dress neatly pressed, shoes polished and bobble hat pulled onto my head – proudly carrying our troop’s pennant (1st Lordswood I think we were, but I never recall there being a 2nd Lordswood) up the aisle for a St George’s Day service.

Beyond that, nobody seemed to care and I’m not sure why.

School parades and church services for youngsters are all very well, but what did you do today to mark the date?

I’m just as guilty. I’ll have done what I do most Mondays – got up, gone to work, sat in front of a computer all day, driven home and gone to bed.

My nod to the date will have been checking to see if our church was flying the St George Cross. I have no idea who raises the flag every year, but I love it.

The Irish always party for St Patrick and the Scots and the Welsh always seem to be doing their bit for the saints too.

So why don’t we get together to eat roast beef and all the trimmings, sing rousing choruses of Jerusalem and down it all with a traditional ale?

Don’t get me wrong, I’d hate to see the day turned into nothing more than a marketing gimmick, that’s not what it’s about.

But we have much to be proud of in this country and it’s about time we stopped being shy about it.

Yes, we have our problems, but there’s a lot that’s good too and let’s face it, if we sit around moaning about everything, we’re not going to feel any better.

So, anyone for a few lines from Land of Hope and Glory?

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Magical hours on banks of the Medway

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Wednesday, April 18 2012

My hubby bought me a camera for my birthday.

If I’m honest, it scares the life out of me at the moment.

Up until now, I’ve been happy to cope with a 'point and shoot’ one for idiots where you don’t even have to worry about turning the flash on because it does it all for you.

This new one is for half-idiots. It lets you loose on choosing your own settings but still has a “fully-automatic mode” for those times when you really don’t trust your own judgement.

I’m still only learning the basics, but grabbed the opportunity to head out with my dad the other day when we went for a family walk along the River Medway, near Riverside Country Park in Rainham.

It wasn’t just a photography lesson, but I learned a lot about him too and it turned out to be one of the most magical hours I’d spent with him.

I knew he’d grown up in Gillingham, near The Strand but, as bizarre as it sounds, I’d never really thought about him playing there as a child.

My trips there were usually with my grandma and if she ever told me and my brother tales about my dad, they’ve been long forgotten.

In the time we were there, not only did he take the time to talk me through some of the basics of photography (turns out it wasn’t just a hobby, he used to teach it), but also talked about how when he was a boy, he used to ride on his bike for miles from Gillingham, through Rainham and beyond, or sometimes sit out on the headland, watching the comings and goings on the river.

I have a lot to learn, about taking photographs and, it seems, about my dad, but I think this was just the first of our little jaunts out together, camera in hand and whiling away the hours.

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I am sick and tired of feeling sick and tired

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Wednesday, April 4 2012

My husband must really love me, because he’s put up with an awful lot the past seven days.

I’ve been ill for over a week now, and while I’ve felt like death warmed up, at least I’ve been able to take time off work.

Him, poor thing, has had several sleepless nights while putting up with me coughing, spluttering, moping around the house, and waking up every hour or so, making the sound of a fog horn.

I’m not a great patient. I’m OK for a day or so and then I get angry. It’s probably the control freak in me – if I can’t make myself better by day three, I’ve had enough.

This all began the weekend before last with a bit of a sniffle, a bit of a temperature and a pretty sore throat. They quickly went, but were replaced by a cough that I just cannot shift.

Drugs from my GP have helped, along with menthol steam, my own body-weight in lozenges, throat sprays, hot milk with honey and paracetamol.

I swear I now have a haze of mint, honey and lemon around me – I daren’t walk near any bees.

It also meant dinner out with my family had to be postponed – I’ve had better birthdays. I felt like I had a severe hangover with none of the alcoholic euphoria beforehand.

Still, it has made me appreciate the smaller things in life, rare treasures such as sleeping more than two hours at a time, being able to taste food and laying down – any sleep I’ve had in the past week has been sat bolt upright. Lay me down, and the coughing starts all over again.

I’ve also retreated back to my childhood as out came grandma’s sick blanket (one of those wonderful multi-coloured crocheted affairs), and in the early hours of the morning I discovered one channel was re-running episodes of The Waltons and Little House on the Prairie.

If I’d found a few episodes of The Clangers and Bagpuss, I’d have been even happier.

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Iron wedding gift will be test of my mettle

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, March 27 2012

I shouldn't really complain because it’s hardly something to get grumpy about, but my husband is annoyingly good at buying presents.

It was our sixth wedding anniversary on Friday. When you reach 50 years, it’s a golden anniversary, 25 years is silver. Six years is, apparently, iron. I warned him if he went for the obvious, he was likely to have one extremely grumpy wife.

I think, for a moment, he was tempted to run the risk – just for a laugh – but thought better of it.

It’s been driving me bonkers, because for the past few weeks, I’ve known that he had my present all sorted, and I knew it was going to be different.

Last year, our fifth, was wood. He bought me a necklace with a wooden heart on it, and our initials engraved on the back.

And so the competition was on, to make my present to him better than his to me. I tried, to coin an awful phrase, to think outside the box.

I was pretty pleased with my final choice – a non-iron shirt, and a branding set for your barbecue. You choose the message you want on your meat, put the letters in the holder, heat it up on the barbecue and stick it into your steak.

For a man who loves cooking, I thought it was quite inspired. But he still managed to top that. My present? An iron horseshoe. Along with a riding lesson at our nearby stables, something I’d said last year I’d love to learn, and he’d remembered.

Thoughtful, probably, but maybe he’s just after a good laugh. “Good luck with that,” said my mum, when I told her. “All I can say is, stay away from water.”

She’s right, because the last time I got on a horse, I promptly fell off it and found myself up to my waist in a muddy river – and spent the next hour glaring at my husband as he tried to contain his laughter.

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'He refuses to buy an e-reader because, he says, there is nothing like a proper book’

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, March 20 2012

I suppose it was only a matter of time before one of the greatest collection of books fell victim to the digital age.

In my job, you have to love words and I do. Newspapers, magazines, booklets, parish magazines, pamphlets – you name it, I love browsing through them.

I also adore books. Christmas and birthday lists are full of new titles I want to delve into, and we have more bookshelves in our house than anything else. My husband’s even boarding over the loft so we can put more shelves up there.

He refuses to buy an e-reader because, he says, there is nothing like a proper book.

And he’s right. I even love the smell of them (I’m sounding weird now, I know). When I heard the Encyclopaedia Britannica will no longer be printed in book form, but as a digital edition only, my heart dropped.

I still have the burgundy leather-bound volumes that my dad bought soon after I was born. It was THE addition to any sideboard, and the tomes stood proudly in our dining room for years.

We knew they were precious but as I grew up, I was allowed to use them for research for my homework.

I can remember carefully turning each delicate page, anxious not to tear it. There was no internet; this was our window on the world. Progress is good, but it’s sad to say goodbye.

Talking of sad goodbyes, there have been plenty of tributes pouring in for Edwin Boorman, and all the good work he did for our county. But he probably didn’t know how far he touched people’s lives.

Edwin and the KM Group have played a huge part in my family’s life. My brother was a paper boy for the old Evening Post; I met my husband, then a fellow KMG journalist, who proposed to me in the KM hot air balloon. Even our wedding invites were mock-ups of the KMG’s What’s On magazine.

Edwin sent a hand-written note when we suffered a family bereavement, which meant a lot.

My mum worked for a charity he was involved with, and he always welcomed her with a cheery hello. He never forgot her name and she has always spoken fondly of him.

He’ll be sadly missed.

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Still plenty to achieve as I turn 41

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, March 13 2012
I’m 41 in a week or two.
No, surely not, I hear you gasp (or maybe not). Yes really.
I’m not sure how I feel about saying goodbye to 40. Everyone builds it up into this “life begins” thing and you feel obliged to do something amazing in the following 12 months.
A friend of mine decided to run four marathons in her 40th year. Great for her, but for me it would have been torture. I’ve done the London Marathon once, and I’m sticking by my vow to never do it again.
I did use my 40th as an excuse to tackle a lot of things.
In the past year I’ve climbed Lakeland fells, dined in some top-notch restaurants, stood at the top of a mountain in the Alps and breathed in the beautiful air, flown over London in a helicopter, had my feet nibbled by those little fish, got together with pals and reminisced over days gone by, ridden a horse along a beach, flown a kite, created a snow angel, and laughed so much while body-boarding in Cornwall in November that my sides ached for days.
But I’m by no means finished. I still want to get a tattoo (sorry mum, nothing big, just visible enough to feel rebellious), dye my hair bright red, lose a couple of stone (not likely with my love of food and drink), stay up all night and watch the sun rise, down a Jägerbomb, try tap dancing again and touch my toes at the start of a yoga class rather than just at the end.
A new study claims that we’re at the peak of our powers in mid-life. I guess with the average life expectancy of a woman being just over 80, I’m pretty near that.
Some would say my antics are a mid-life crisis. I reckon it’s just me finally getting round to ticking things off on life’s long wish list.
I’m loving every minute of it, and that list just keeps getting longer.

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Time to sort Gold anthem

by Nikki's world, with Nikki White Tuesday, March 6 2012

The first nationwide countdown to London 2012 started over the weekend.

Music Nation saw more than 100 live events across the UK and featured more than 10,000 people and 18 new works.

It was a cultured start to the festivities, but I have just one question – where’s Spandau Ballet?

Log onto the official 2012 website and they’ll tell you all about the must-haves: the parade of athletes, the speeches, receiving of the head of state, the oaths, the anthems and the raising of the flags. All grand stuff and traditions that should not be missed.

But what we really want to know is how the Olympic Cauldron is going to be lit (who can forget Paralympic archer Antonio Rebollo, who shot an arrow into it at Barcelona 1992) and who’s headlining the big bash.

There’s been plenty of speculation, but nothing’s been confirmed, although Sir Paul McCartney did reveal he was in talks to do “something”.

What we do know is that film director Danny Boyle, who’s leading the creative team, pans to incorporate a 27-ton bell, nurses – to celebrate the NHS – and 900 children among a cast of 15,000.

What I want to see is someone back flip their way down the stadium, land on a trampoline and somersault their way over the top of the cauldron, lighting it with their outstretched hand as they fly over the top. And all to the strains of Spandau Ballet belting out “Gold” from the top of a London bus.

You cannot have an Olympics without them. Ever since the BBC used it in their coverage of the 1984 Olympics in Los Angeles, you can’t watch an athlete run around the track without inwardly singing, “Cos, you are gold (gold); always believe in your so-oul, you’ve got the power to know, you’re in-de-struct-able, always believe i-in......”

Amazingly, it only got to number two in the UK singles chart, pipped to the number one spot by KC and the Sunshine Band’s Give It Up.

So now’s the time to put that right. Get Spandau Ballet to number one and have them perform at the opening ceremony. It’s about time the rest of the world had that song buzzing around their head all day, and not just us.

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